Tell Me Pastor

TMP: My Grandfather Caught Me Having Sex

Dear Pastor,: I am 17 years old and I have a problem. My boyfriend is 18 and he came to visit me while I was staying with my grandfather for the weekend. My grandfather went out and told me that he was coming back about 10:30 at night so I took the chance to have sex with my boyfriend. When ...

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TMP: Pregnant & Pushed Aside

Dear Pastor,: I am 25, confused and don’t know what to do. I am pregnant for a man, who is not paying me any attention. He used to text me whenever he leaves for work and when he got to work. All of a sudden, he has stopped. Before he was working, I used to help him financially, but since ...

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TMP: My Wife is a Fifteen-Minute Lover

Dear Pastor,: I am 33 and became a Christian two years ago, got baptised and joined my church. I have three children with three different women but when I became a Christian and went into church I realised that none of those women would make a good wife. Two of them told me I would not keep up my Christianity ...

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TMP: She Thinks I’m Seeing Her Best Friend

Dear Pastor,: It is very difficult to have a woman and to try to make her happy while she is not showing you any appreciation at all. I built a house on her family land and my girlfriend and I moved in together. We have been together for two years and I love her. The house is built in the ...

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TMP: Married Me For The Cash

Dear Pastor: I have been with my husband for 11 years. When he first asked me to marry him I was in my early 20s, and he asked me to marry him because he was deploying to Iraq and wanted to make more money (you do if you are a married soldier). As naive as I was, I went ahead ...

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TMP: Could My Niece Be Stealing My Man?

Dear Pastor,: I am 51 and really upset. I have a niece who is 18. She came to spend two weeks with me. After one week, I started to notice how friendly she was getting with my boyfriend. My boyfriend and I don’t live together. He visits three times for the week. Since she has been, he is here every ...

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TMP: 65-y-o With a 38-y-o Boyfriend

Dear Pastor,: I am 65 years old but I don’t look my age. I am in love with a single man who is 38 years old. He is not working. Since I met him, he has never worked. He says he cannot get any job and he cannot do any hard work. He looks much older than his age. He ...

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TMP: She Won’t Cook or Clean

Dear Pastor, Greetings to you. Thank God for your blessings. I am writing these few words seeking your advice. I am 40 years old and I am married. I am a very hardworking man. I work five days a week and sometimes six. I am having a problem with my wife. My wife doesn’t cook or make lunch for me ...

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Obeah Rituals – Tell Me Pastor

Dear Pastor, I am 25 years old and I am married to a 57-year-old man. This is my first marriage, but my husband was married before and his wife died. My husband makes me feel scared of him. I just don’t know what he would do to me. He is not cruel or abusive, but he believes in obeah. He ...

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He Uses His Mouth to Keep Women

Dear Pastor, Greetings to you and may the Lord continue to bless you. I have been in love with a man for years. We are both Jamaicans. I suffer a lot of abuse from my family and friends because of this man. He suffers from an illness that left him walking funny as if he is falling on his face. ...

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