Greetings to you and may the Lord continue to bless you. I have been in love with a man for years. We are both Jamaicans. I suffer a lot of abuse from my family and friends because of this man. He suffers from an illness that left him walking funny as if he is falling on his face. In spite of all that, I still love him.
Over the years, he has always had other women with me. The last time we got back together, he was out of job, so I did what I could do to help him but it was very stressful. He was always complaining that he didn’t know when he would get a job. I kept on encouraging him to be strong, but it was getting to me to hear him complaining every day, so I gave him a break.
A few months ago, I contacted him to see how he was doing and I realised that he has moved on. He said he has another woman. She was there for him and he is in love with her. After all I have done for him, he has never made mention of anything I did. He was only praising her, but he said he doesn’t want to give me up.
All my life I have fought to keep him, but I don’t think he really loves me. He said that he loves me, but he never really shows it. Most of the women that he loves just take his money and then leave him because he can’t even satisfy women. His penis is like a small child, so now he is using his mouth to try to keep the women happy.
Pastor, do you think he will ever truly love me?
This man told you that he has moved on. So, I suggest that you should not go yapping behind him like a puppy. He is an ungrateful man. He has never given you anything. When he gets money, he spends it on other women, not on you. You left him, so why do you want to go back to him?
You claim that he is not very useful in bed because of the size of his penis. I don’t know how you can be sure that to keep these other women, he engages in “swiping”. Whether that is true or not, you should not go back to him. Don’t waste your time. There is no future with him. He is a heavy load to carry. He will only use you.
Source: Jamaican Star